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The Last Dance

June 20, 2015

being a dance teacher, end of my dance career, alicia fashionista

It had been such a casual, fleeting moment.  That afternoon in 1990 when my mom came upstairs to ask me if I’d like to join dance.  I paused and looked up only to shrug, “Okay,” as I continued to play with my dolls.  I remember bits of it too, those first classes, even though I would’ve only been 4 years old.  It often happens that way.  These tiny, insignificant little things that end up being an absolutely life changing moment in time.

For 25 years, the dance studio has been my second home.  Inside those stone grey walls and through the blue door, is a place where I learned discipline, nurtured my creativity, and experienced incredible triumph.  I’ve been a butterfly, an international spy, and a cavewoman.  I’ve done a Ukranian Waltz, a Cell Block Tango, and demanded R-E-S-P-E-C-T (in tap shoes, no less).  I formed lifelong friendships that will forever be bonded together by our memories on the stage and in the classroom.

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S E V E N

April 14, 2015

Easter Tea Party Inspiration Style Me Pretty

Photo by Ainsley Rose

April has a history of being a time of big change in my life, and it’s one of my favourite months of the year for this exact reason.  As scary as change can be, it’s what pivots our course in life and leads us in new and exciting directions.  For most, April 13th is just another day in the calendar.  For me, it was on this day, in 2008, that I felt the need to create aliciafashionista.com and write my very first blog post.  Can you even stand that we’ve spent SEVEN years together?  I can barely fathom that so much time has passed and that I’ve yet to tire of this strange and amazing blogging life.
On this particular blogiversary, I’m feeling nostalgic and more thankful than I could even try to describe.  Looking back at photos and posts from years gone by, my heart is incredibly full of love.   THANK YOU for being here.  It has been such an incredible journey and one that wouldn’t even be possible without all of you.  I have so much more in store for you guys over the next year too.  We’re going to be spending a lot more time together, so brace yourselves!
Thank you so much for the last seven years.  I look forward to continuing our hangouts in this tiny little spot in the vast abyss that is the internet.  Lots of love xoxo

Style

Easy Breezy

July 16, 2014

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The Details // Photos by Jamie Lauren
Dress, Pixie Market
Booties, Miz Mooz
Hat, H&M
Assorted Gold Cuff Bracelets, Olivia Solie
Wrap Bracelet, Alden Rae
Rings, Pandora

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Photography by the amazing Jamie Lauren
Whew!  What a month July has been so far.  I mean, we had TWO weddings on Saturday, as well as all the pre-wedding events leading up to the big day.  I’ve been going to tennis lessons twice a week.  My dad turned 60 (haiiiii, Wildawg).  I’ve still been trying to eat clean. I’m leaving for Vegas next week.  And yes, those last two points are related.  Work has been so much because I took on a ton of new responsibilities, but we all know that also means doubling the workload.  PLUS it’s just friggin summer.  This means that sometimes I say screw it and just close my computer to get outside and find the nearest caesar/sangria/margarita/doesn’t really matter.   That sunset walks > everything else and that getting a decent tan is a genuine concern.  I love this time of year for its high temperatures and high energy.  Nothing beats summer in the city!
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Life

Six

April 29, 2014

Macaron Heaven
When people find out about this site, a few of the same questions usually come up.  When did I begin aliciafashionista.com? Why did I start a blog?  How did I build an audience?  How do you curl your hair?  Can you come shopping with me?  Etc.  
To be perfectly honest with you, I don’t know why this all began 6 years ago.  On a rainy Sunday evening in April 2008, I registered on blogspot and wrote a few paragraphs and I don’t know why any of you are still here, or how I could possibly be this lucky.  There’s no big secret or formula.  We’re just all together in this weird online world.  Though I shouldn’t be, I really should be sleeping right now.
I just had to stop all of the important things I was doing (watching stranger’s wedding videos…) to say thanks.  THANK YOU for being here.  For reading, sharing, supporting, smiling, emailing, liking, following, commenting, inspiring, being inspired, laughing, crying, and sticking around.  If I could, I’d share one of those macarons with you as a token of my gratitude.  Especially since I should never be in possession of such a large assortment sweets and I polished off more of those heavenly treats than I’d care to admit to you right now.
So, yeah.  You’re kind of the best and I just wanted you to know that.  K thx bye.

Life

4 Intentions For 2014

January 2, 2014

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Resolutions are silly.  I only say this, because I’m weak and can never seem to keep them.  That’s why, this year I’m trying to trick myself into making things work and setting intentions instead of resolutions.  Let’s see if I can pull a fast one on myself and follow these for the rest of the year!  Without further ado, in 2014, I intend to…
1. Live With Purpose
Somewhere along the way, I stopped goal setting.  I stopped writing in my journal.  I gave up healthy habits.  I became a shareable version of myself.  This year, I will find purpose in every single day and make the most of all 365 of them.
2. Be Present
Whether that means reaching out to someone I haven’t spoken to in a while, staying on top of emails and life organization, or just unplugging for a few hours, I want to do more living in the moment.  I hope to feel in control of my life rather than always trying to catch up to it. 
3. Take Care Of Myself
This goes beyond just the gym this year, though that’s something that needs to be done along the way as well.  This is about really taking care of my mind and body.  It’s as simple as things like making sure I actually eat 3 meals a day, regularly going to the doctor, and being responsible financially.  I’m an adult and it’s about time I started acting like one!
4. Step Outside Of My Comfort Zone
I’m a creature of habit, raised by creatures of habit, so falling into a comfortable routine is incredibly easy.  This year is all about pushing myself.  Learning new things, facing “scary” things, trying things I think I won’t like, and taking risks when necessary. 
“Life begins at the end of your comfort zone” – Neale Donald Walsch

Let’s not forget that I’ve also got big plans and some amazing content for aliciafashionista.com coming up, so be sure to stay tuned. I have a feeling that 2014 is going to be our best yet!  
Happy New Year 🙂

Life

Ohhh you know. A little of this, a little of that.

January 29, 2013

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Things that are currently awesome:
Anything and everything Style Common related.  We’re onto something great, my friends.
That Adam and I officially booked our flights to England and France.  Hello, Paris outfit planning!
This smoothie recipe.  I’ve replaced my morning coffee with a smoothie and the gym, its been fantastic.
Having Girls HBO, Suits, and Downton Abbey all back on the tele.  Although, don’t even get me started on last night’s episode of Downton, I’m still traumatized.
This adorable photoshoot by Stephanie Sterjovski.  Has me longing for a romantic Valentines Day…and a cupcake.
The fact that I’m already in my pjs and ready to snuggle up to a good book.
Happy Monday xo 

Home Life

On The Board

December 11, 2012

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The last few weeks have been just beyond crazy.  I had more than one whhhhat is happening moment, jam-packed scheduling,  and for a few stressful hours, a completely unattractive eye twitch.

In preparation for Deck Your Closet, our apartment looked like a really cool but totally stress-inducing craft room slash thrift shop.  Our bed frame and all the contents normally stored underneath our bed were also all over our living room (we broke our bed…in a non-weird way, a piece of it apparently warped and we were woken up last Sunday morning when a section of our bed gave way).  Work has been so much fun but just non-stop, and I’m not sure if you’ve noticed, but I’ve been trying to blog 5 days a week.  And, I’m proud to say that I’ve done so for an entire month.  That’s 20 posts in 30 days, an aliciafashionista.com record!

Yes, it has been a lot.  But keeping this simple holiday inspired message on the board has actually helped keep me sane.  Every time I’d look at the day and think “There’s NO way I can get all of this done, it’s mission impossible,” I’d simply remind myself that it will all work out.  It always does.

Things have thankfully already slowed down, and I can now try to get into the Christmas spirit.  Hope you all had a fantastic weekend and thank you to everyone who was involved with yesterday’s events. Both Deck Your Closet and Timmy’s Telethon were a huge success!

xo

Life Style

Just A Few Quick Things…

December 6, 2012

Wondering what all this stuff about The Style Common is about?
Our website is now up and running.

If you’re in Vancouver and looking for something fun to do this weekend, why not
come shop my closet!?  There are still tickets left for Deck Your Closet this Sunday,
get yours before they’re all sold out!
So excited to be featured on the FASHION Magazine website today.

Also proud to be a part of Timmy’s Telethon, in support of the BC
Lions Society.  Tune in this Sunday, December 9th from 4 pm – 10 pm on 
Shaw TV or live at timmys.org while I live Tweet and Facebook!

Had lots of fun shopping at Wear Else with Randa of The Unprecedented a few
weeks ago.

Hope you’re all having a fabulous week xo

Life Relationships Style

The Story Of A Little Blue Box

November 28, 2012

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I was never that kid who hunted around for the house wanting a peek at Christmas presents before the big day.  Despite my control freak tendencies, I like the anticipation of opening and unwrapping a gift and being completely surprised!  This is why I freaked out last week while I was frantically tearing our bedroom apart in search of something to wear.  I was determined to find and borrow a men’s plaid shirt to layer under a sweater.  Adam’s closet had no such thing, and so, I resorted to the drawers.  I opened the bottom drawer first in some sort of twisted logic and there, staring back at me was a ball of navy blue silk fabric with orange polka dots.  I knew what it was a blouse pour moi and slammed the drawer shut.  Adam had told me that he’d gone shopping for me in London and I felt so guilty that I’d seen the purchase.  I changed my outfit plans and pretended like nothing happened.
As an admittedly bad liar, I was sure to practise my “OMG I loooove it!” reaction for the day of my birthday.  The day of, I was doing some work in my p.j.’s on the couch when Adam told me to close my eyes because it was time to open my gifts.  When I was allowed to open my eyes again, he had his arm extended out with a card.  I opened it, and closed it immediately as I was too emotional, “I’ll read this later,” I told him.  He then handed me part one of the gift, which was a pair of coasters.  They’re an adorable his and hers set and really thoughtful, since I hate our current coasters and bash them on a daily basis.  He then reached to grab part two of the gift, which I immediately prepared myself for.  Sure enough, there were those familiar polka dots and I did my best ooh-ing and ahh-ing act.  He seemed to buy it and just when I was about to get up and go try it on, he stopped me for an unexpected third gift.  Tucked behind him, I caught a glimpse of a very distinct shade of blue.  It couldn’t be…could it?

Opened Tiffany & Co. Box




I’ve never received anything so extravagant   I thought that the “big” gift this year was a silk blouse from England.  I mean, we’d started off with coasters, people!  That’s not exactly a warm up for Tiffany’s.  Adam had barely even shown me the box and I began to cry.  I was upset that he’d done something so kind, and that I was wearing pajamas.  “I would have gotten dressed first if I’d known,” I told him, “It just doesn’t feel right opening Tiffany & Co. in my pajamas.”  It was a good 5 minutes before I even opened the box (well, I HAD to instagram a photo of the box before opening), which contained a beautiful pair of Silver Elsa Peretti Colour By The Yard earrings.   Turns out he’d purchased more than one item for me on his travels across the pond!

Silver Elsa Peretti Colour By The Yard with tsavorites 
My very first Tiffany’s!
silver Elsa Peretti Colour By The Yard with tsavorites from Tiffany & Co.

Thank you so much Adam, I feel so undeserving and absolutely spoiled!


P.S. I forgot to tell you that Adam saw right through my “acting” and asked me afterwards if I’d known about any of my gifts.  I didn’t even try to cover it up, had to confess that I’d accidentally seen the blouse.  He said he knew it based on my reaction.  Might have to ask Santa for some acting lessons this year…