Why the first two years of our marriage have been the toughest of our entire relationship.
Adam and I have been together for over a decade, and living together for more than half of that. I really thought that marriage would be a simple, almost invisible transition for us. A couple of rose gold rings and a new title, just surface level stuff. I don’t know what it was, but the power of exchanging vows in front of all our friends and family brought profound shift within us and our relationship. All this time, being thoughtful and patient about each stage of our union, brought us into marriage at a time of great personal chaos.
Don’t worry, this is not a post about What The Health.
I have always wanted to be a smoothie person. The one that shows up to a morning meeting with a delicious homemade green smoothie. This dream is a bit tough to achieve for someone who lacks energy in the a.m. (and truthfully, never has morning meetings) because I really think you have to be a morning person to be a true smoothie person…or do you? In my efforts to infuse more routine into my life and eat more whole foods, I have been trying out some meal prepping and it has been a massive help! The fact that even I can be eating three meals a day, homemade, and full of nutrients is impressive for someone inherently lazy like myself.
I just can’t believe that I didn’t try freezing smoothie ingredients sooner! It’s such a perfect way to enjoy a breakfast or lunch that nourishes your body and gives you energy for the day. I finally feel like I’m on the way to be a smoothie person, and damn, it feels great! The concept is very simple, and really, nothing revolutionary, but I’ve included some helpful notes below in case you want to try it out too.
We are currently in the middle of a heatwave and enjoying the perfect first weekend of summer! Since I just returned from my 24 hours in Iceland and spent half of this weekend sleeping (or sleepy), I instead dedicated yesterday to planning out our summer to-do list. I always find that it’s best to write down our July/August activity wishlist, as those summer days tend to fill up fast. I am SO excited for summertime, there’s so much to do! Be sure to read on below to find out what our musts are this season.
Something amazing has been happening lately. A ton of my friends are having babies. Like, a TON of them. It’s all baby showers, newborn snuggles, jolly jumper snapchats, and shopping for fun gifts, because being an aunt is kind of the best. And besides all the cuteness that now surrounds me (and takes over my phone storage), it has been incredible witnessing so many of my friends become mothers. Their strength and resilience leaves me in awe and more often than not, I am left wondering how the heck they do it!
Since it’s Mother’s Day, I thought I’d do a post that was a little different. I asked a couple of my closest friends (very last minute too, you ladies are the best) to share their stories instead. To get things rolling, I posed the question, “How has Motherhood been different than you’d expected?”
What I didn’t expect in return, was to get so emotional. I am beyond proud of each of these ladies (and all my mom friends, I wish I’d had enough time to ask every single one of them) for navigating this tough and life changing journey with grace and full hearts.
Today, Adam and I are having a little Mother’s Day brunch for our own moms (because nothing says thank you for sacrificing everything like scrambled eggs). But, I also wanted to say a big Happy Mother’s Day to all of YOU! New moms, and grandmas, adoptive mothers, those moms who have lost, the mamas to be, step moms, mothers-in-law, those longing to be moms, and even my fellow fur mamas out there! Motherhood is simply beautiful and I’m so glad we can all celebrate that today.